Lots of people suffer a great deal from feeling anxious. Of course, nearly everyone will have experiences in their life that they worry about; this is normal. How we then deal with these feelings can be really important in whether or not they are something which we experience in passing or become a pattern of thinking and feeling that stops us from enjoying our lives.

Physical Symptoms of Anxiety

The physical symptoms of anxiety are pretty common: dry mouth, elevated breathing and heart rate, butterflies in the stomach, upset stomach, sweating, trembling, inability to concentrate, sleep disturbances are the most common. This reaction is what is known as the ‘flight or fight mechanism’. It is an instinctive physical response to danger that is designed to help us get away from a threat. What is happening in the body is that chemicals are being released to enable us to literally take flight: to run away or to fight, to protect ourselves physically. Now, as a response to a genuine danger (for example, enabling us to leap out of the way of a car as we are about to cross a busy road) it is appropriate and helpful. If it is in response to an upcoming social situation or a presentation at work it may not be helpful at all and may, in fact, get in our way and stop us from enjoying the experience.

Significant Factors

There are a number of significant factors that I think play a large part in why some people experience high levels of anxiety on a regular basis. Here are two of them.

1) They have great difficulty in soothing themselves when they do feel nervous, anxious or stressed and, therefore, don’t easily return to a state of calmness.

2) They often have experienced one or more of the following: a recent event that may have triggered feelings of stress and anxiety; a traumatic, frightening or distressing event when they were a child that they have been unable to come to terms with; one or more of their parents or caregivers often used to worry about them or were themselves someone who often got anxious.
Self-Help Strategies for Anxiety

So, what can anyone who gets anxious do to help themselves? Here are five suggestions that you may find helpful:

1) Put in place a regime to improve your general health and well-being. For example, cut down on stimulants: reduce how much tea and coffee you drink, particularly in the evenings. Take regular exercise. Eat healthily.

2) Learn how to relax. Make time at least once a day to undertake a relaxation exercise or activity.

3) Develop a series of activities that occupy your mind and provide an interesting distraction for times when you are stressed.

4) Talk about what is worrying you to someone you trust.

5) Challenge your thinking and your worries by reality testing your fears.

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